Why Won’t You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts {ebook Pdf} ✓ Harriet Lerner



10 thoughts on “Why Won’t You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts

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    Why Won't You Apologized examines The Many Faces of 'I'm Sorry For two decades Harriet Lerner has been studying apologies She's learned a few things witnessed tremendous powerful rewards from a heartfelt apology as well as the damage a bad apology can cause The healing power of a 'good' apology is immediately recognizable Anger and resentment melts away It feels better to be connected than disconnectedbut as Harriet s

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    We’ve all witnessed or likely experienced firsthand the power of an apology A sincere apology can repair damage done whi

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    35 an important conversation to begin stars All of us have been hurt by strangers and loved ones alike These hurts

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    This book explores the power and potential pitfalls of apologies It offers a guide to the art of crafting an apology that is meaningful and can restore trust The book also offers insight to situations where the offended person feels they are owed an apology but are not receiving one And there’s also advice on how to properly receive an apology when it does come The author is a psychologist with years of exp

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    The most valuable part of this book is Lerner's list of five ways to ruin an apology Having had apologies ruined for me in just thes

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    5 stars Harriet Lerner's latest book is filled with points on apology the bogus apology the overlong apology holding off on the use of BUT and IF which are dealbreakers and when and how to give and accept an olive branch Earnest honest considerate apologies retain connection in relationships demonstrate respect and maturely express accountability And most people have a hard time letting go to offer an apology Lerner covers that and in her

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    This was a tough book to readit made me realize how skimpy and hollow some of my apologies have been and why they didn't elicit the responses that I'd hoped for It's a wonderful book deep insights great anecdotes that really help explain how different apologies and responses affect us interesting discussion about the possi

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    uick review for a uick read It took me around 4 or so hours to read through this thought provoking psychological read on the dissection of apologies Topics that Harriet Lerner approaches in this book include what constitu

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    This book deserves 5 solid stars and I don’t give out 5 stars very often This book is invaluable to anyone who has friends andor family in the

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    Sensible clear and wise advice with humour and honesty throughout Just what I needed to read and think about Many clear ex

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review ☆ PDF, eBook or Kindle ePUB × Harriet Lerner

Pelling stories and solid theory to demonstrate the transformative power of making amends and what is reuired for healing when the damage we’ve inflicted or received is far from simple Readers will learn how to craft a meaningful apology and avoid signals of insincerity that only deepen sufferingIn Why Won’t You Apologize Lerner challenges the popular notion that forgiven. 5 stars Harriet Lerner s latest book is filled with points on apology the bogus apology the overlong apology holding off on the use of BUT and IF which are dealbreakers and when and how to give and accept an olive branch Earnest honest considerate apologies retain connection in relationships demonstrate respect and maturely express accountability And most people have a hard time letting go to offer an apology Lerner covers that and in her very informative book I was hoping to find something a bit different than that wise advice that it is And eventually on page 143 of this 190 page guide I did plus I m an apologizer an anomaly in my original family It was a family that didn t talk about the big stuff a mom who shut down from my non apologizing father siblings who took cues on how to hold power and I lear Philosophical Papers use of BUT and IF which are dealbreakers and when and how to give and accept an olive branch Earnest honest considerate apologies retain connection in relationships demonstrate respect and maturely express accountability And most people have a hard time letting go to offer an apology Lerner covers that and in her very informative book I was hoping to find something a bit different than that wise advice that it is And eventually on page 143 of this 190 page guide I did plus I m an apologizer an anomaly in my original family It was a family that didn t talk about the big stuff a mom who shut down from my non apologizing father siblings who took cues on how to hold power and I lear

summary Why Won’t You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts

Why Won’t You Apologize? Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts

The renowned psychologist and bestselling author of The Dance of Anger Harriet Lerner sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language ‘I’m sorry’ – and offers a uniue perspective on the challenge of healing broken relationships and restoring trustLerner has been studying apologies for than two decades In Why Won’t You Apologize she offers com. 35 an important conversation to begin stars All of us have been hurt by strangers and loved ones alike These hurts take up a disproportionate amount of our interior lives and are sometimes the cause of dysfunctional ways of being in the world in our relationships and with ourselves Dr Lerner begins a very important conversation about the nature of hurt betrayals apologies and forgiveness She bitten off a huge topic and in a pleasant and vaguely helpful way discusses the nature of the above with research clinical examples and her own lived experience The writing is accessible and interesting but she fails to delve into any of the above with the gusto and detail that I craved This is neither clinical manual nor self help book but rather a meandering albeit wise tome that weaves in and out with insight and k Pandora Noves Histries De Vampirs 1 uniue perspective on the challenge of healing broken relationships and restoring trustLerner has been studying apologies for than two decades In Why Won’t You Apologize she offers com. 35 an important conversation to begin stars All of Anayurt Oteli us have been hurt by strangers and loved ones alike These hurts take the-dhammapada up a disproportionate amount of our interior lives and are sometimes the cause of dysfunctional ways of being in the world in our relationships and with ourselves Dr Lerner begins a very important conversation about the nature of hurt betrayals apologies and forgiveness She bitten off a huge topic and in a pleasant and vaguely helpful way discusses the nature of the above with research clinical examples and her own lived experience The writing is accessible and interesting but she fails to delve into any of the above with the gusto and detail that I craved This is neither clinical manual nor self help book but rather a meandering albeit wise tome that weaves in and out with insight and k

review ☆ PDF, eBook or Kindle ePUB × Harriet Lerner

Ess is the only path to peace of mind and helps those who have been injured to resist pressure to forgive too easily She explains what drives both the non apologizer and the over apologizer and why the people who do the worst things are the least able to own their misdeeds With her trademark humour and wit Lerner offers a joyful and sanity saving guide to setting things right. This book deserves 5 solid stars and I don t give out 5 stars very often This book is invaluable to anyone who has friends andor family in their lives who lack luster in the apology department It covers both big hurts such as deep seeded wounds of child abuse as well as smaller offenses such as a friend not saying thank you when you pick up the check I have people in my life who behave this way and I find it very frustrating For this reason I decided to read the book for myself as well as a possible recommendation for my clients I don t like to recommend a book to a client if I myself haven t read it from cover to cover So there I went plowing away at this book turning the pages and devouring the wisdom on every single page Dr Lerner delivers her wealth of knowledge and experience with both empathy